When i was a little kid i always thought that life was a bed of roses because i was surrounded by happiness , laughter and joyous moments.
As i grew up i cam to realise that life is not a bed of roses , when i was young i used to feel that way because i was unknown to the situations my parents faced and also because i was young so i wasnt involved in any situations because it was pointless.
When i saw myself being involved in those situations indirectly because now i could clearly see teh atmosphere around me change and the happiness that always used to arouse when i was young was no longer there and that's when my realisation struck me that life isn't a bed of roses we have to pass through the thorns too.
Now at a later stage when im enjoying my uni life , again i thought life is a bed of roses as i had great freinds , great life , everything just seems so perfect i couldnt have asked for anything more than this but again lilttle by little incidents made me realise again that Aiman life is not a bed of roses and nothing stays permanant one day you have to let go of things/people you love the most or people who are close to your heart.
But the worst part is when your friends go away from you in just moments of time and that even for unknown or known reasons which are not fully accepted by you but even then we see them drifting away and cannot do anything and the next thing you know is that they're no longer talking to you...How painful is that ?
"We learn life through the hard way" and also "we learn through mistakes". I learnt life the hard way where by i had to face situations of my friends drifting away from me and i embarced the situation and faced it bravely and i have learnt from my mistakes and that is never let someone come very close to you so that when they leave they shouldnt leave a scar on you.
"Life isn't a bedof roses , we have to pass through the thorns too"
As i grew up i cam to realise that life is not a bed of roses , when i was young i used to feel that way because i was unknown to the situations my parents faced and also because i was young so i wasnt involved in any situations because it was pointless.
When i saw myself being involved in those situations indirectly because now i could clearly see teh atmosphere around me change and the happiness that always used to arouse when i was young was no longer there and that's when my realisation struck me that life isn't a bed of roses we have to pass through the thorns too.
Now at a later stage when im enjoying my uni life , again i thought life is a bed of roses as i had great freinds , great life , everything just seems so perfect i couldnt have asked for anything more than this but again lilttle by little incidents made me realise again that Aiman life is not a bed of roses and nothing stays permanant one day you have to let go of things/people you love the most or people who are close to your heart.
But the worst part is when your friends go away from you in just moments of time and that even for unknown or known reasons which are not fully accepted by you but even then we see them drifting away and cannot do anything and the next thing you know is that they're no longer talking to you...How painful is that ?
"We learn life through the hard way" and also "we learn through mistakes". I learnt life the hard way where by i had to face situations of my friends drifting away from me and i embarced the situation and faced it bravely and i have learnt from my mistakes and that is never let someone come very close to you so that when they leave they shouldnt leave a scar on you.
"Life isn't a bedof roses , we have to pass through the thorns too"
interesting point of view!
ReplyDeletei believe that make friends that even though you are miles apart the distance doesnt seem that far. and when u meet u just continue like youve never been apart a day!
its our choice at the end of the day we want the thorns to hurt/scar us or just prick us enough to open our eyes.
Fatimah, Thank you..
ReplyDeleteIts quite true friends should always be the same even if you meet them after ages...!
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